And equally hard to swear vengeance against a loved one..
But it's harder to decide
What would it be
Forgiveness or Revenge
15 comments:
Anonymous
said...
Hello!
Wudnt want to interfere with your personal life/thoughts; however only because I empathise, I would like to ask if you have ever realised that an important attribute of true love is "infinite power"? :)
One of my pals once told stated a universal truth for me- one of the most beautiful truths: [i]"In life, it is entirely okay to go wrong. And the weird thing about forgiveness is- it seems you are doing a favour to second person, when most of the favour you actually do to yourself."[/i]
hey... something had gone wrong with the settings on my blog... i have re-published all the posts which did not have the comment option.. so feel free to leave ur comments.. and u r always welcome.. :)
ummm..depends on a lot of things ya.. Anyway, I need to know what exactly happened to say anything.
But just randomly...there was this one time when something really heartbreaking happened(ok, only my heart broke but whatever. That doesn't make it any less heartbreaking)
I haven't been able to forgive him even after over an year...I have tried to take revenge but i just don't have the balls. I melt everytime and end up going with the flow. Maybe someday i'll take revenge and be really at peace...or maybe not. How many of us can be happy after(for) having hurt a loved one? I'll only be more miserable if he's unhappy.
I can go on and write a post here.(Oh! touchy topics like these...) Cutting the long story short, if its really a loved one, as i understand the term, revenge won't help. I doubt if you can forgive(i somehow find this whole forgiving thing very beyond me and ergo unrealistic)
I'd not hold it against him/her but resent, i will. It'll always keep cropping up every now and then in my heart...One(I) cannot be the same again. I'll take the middle path, only because i am incapable of taking any other.
wot's wid so many anonymous msgs.??.n u havin a diff reaction for every anonoymous post...lol.. NEWAY. It would b v easy if it was jus forgivin or taking revenge.. we probably can't forgive.haven't met a single person who truly forgives..can at most think it was meant to be..n yes every thing that doesn't go our way is well meant to teach us some or the other lesson.!!..revenge.!!ouch no,tht'll hurt u more than the person concerned ...if u don take revenge..atleast u can always claim a moral high ground n trust me tht helps..hehhe..n yes,some day or the othEr ,the one who did the wrong will make u feel tht u really did have a moral high ground n tht he/she repents havin done tht wrong..n then u can chose to forgive or not to forgive..if then u forgive..its forgiveness n if u don forgive its the best n sweetest revenge..in either case it feels BEYAWSUM.:)..so jus wait for it to come to you.!:)
It sure does.. pretty much sums up all wat i had felt sometime back... and neva mind the length... qty can be excused if the quality is gud.. :)
@youjus..
aah.. here u r.. the one who seems wired into my thoughts.. :)
and now me shall wait.. lets c.. whether i will be happy wit the moral high grnd or wud tak the sweetest revenge wen the time comes.. :) nd well abt the Anons... the blog is getting popular.. :D lol... :P
15 comments:
Hello!
Wudnt want to interfere with your personal life/thoughts; however only because I empathise, I would like to ask if you have ever realised that an important attribute of true love is "infinite power"? :)
One of my pals once told stated a universal truth for me- one of the most beautiful truths:
[i]"In life, it is entirely okay to go wrong. And the weird thing about forgiveness is- it seems you are doing a favour to second person, when most of the favour you actually do to yourself."[/i]
:)
Forgiveness is given to those who wont repeat their faults
Hence, I choose MERCY :)
aaargh! now this blog has quite a number of anon visitors!
Rozz, ur blog is becoming popular, smile! :)
hey... something had gone wrong with the settings on my blog... i have re-published all the posts which did not have the comment option.. so feel free to leave ur comments.. and u r always welcome.. :)
aah.. now this is getting too anonymous... :|
anyways...
@anon1
like the universal truth...
@anon2
i wonder r u same as anon1 or diff.. hmmm... mercy.. nice option!!
@anon3...
mow i really wonder who u r.. i have a few names in my mind.. nd yay am smiling! :) :)
@niv
Yay!! :D
:D
anon1 and anon3 are same :D
(the always anonymous wanderer on ur blog)
:)
@ wanderer..
:)
It's not that hard if you try hard enough.
Really.
S.
@ S
wat wud u choose... or rather have chosen?
ummm..depends on a lot of things ya.. Anyway, I need to know what exactly happened to say anything.
But just randomly...there was this one time when something really heartbreaking happened(ok, only my heart broke but whatever. That doesn't make it any less heartbreaking)
I haven't been able to forgive him even after over an year...I have tried to take revenge but i just don't have the balls. I melt everytime and end up going with the flow. Maybe someday i'll take revenge and be really at peace...or maybe not. How many of us can be happy after(for) having hurt a loved one? I'll only be more miserable if he's unhappy.
I can go on and write a post here.(Oh! touchy topics like these...) Cutting the long story short, if its really a loved one, as i understand the term, revenge won't help. I doubt if you can forgive(i somehow find this whole forgiving thing very beyond me and ergo unrealistic)
I'd not hold it against him/her but resent, i will. It'll always keep cropping up every now and then in my heart...One(I) cannot be the same again. I'll take the middle path, only because i am incapable of taking any other.
Helps?
S.
wot's wid so many anonymous msgs.??.n u havin a diff reaction for every anonoymous post...lol..
NEWAY.
It would b v easy if it was jus forgivin or taking revenge..
we probably can't forgive.haven't met a single person who truly forgives..can at most think it was meant to be..n yes every thing that doesn't go our way is well meant to teach us some or the other lesson.!!..revenge.!!ouch no,tht'll hurt u more than the person concerned ...if u don take revenge..atleast u can always claim a moral high ground n trust me tht helps..hehhe..n yes,some day or the othEr ,the one who did the wrong will make u feel tht u really did have a moral high ground n tht he/she repents havin done tht wrong..n then u can chose to forgive or not to forgive..if then u forgive..its forgiveness n if u don forgive its the best n sweetest revenge..in either case it feels BEYAWSUM.:)..so jus wait for it to come to you.!:)
@ S
It sure does.. pretty much sums up all wat i had felt sometime back...
and neva mind the length... qty can be excused if the quality is gud.. :)
@youjus..
aah.. here u r.. the one who seems wired into my thoughts.. :)
and now me shall wait.. lets c.. whether i will be happy wit the moral high grnd or wud tak the sweetest revenge wen the time comes.. :)
nd well abt the Anons... the blog is getting popular.. :D lol... :P
and ohh.. the use of beyawsum is noted.. ;D
"wired into your thoughts"..sounds good,weirdly so.!lol.
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